Contemplate Dating Program

Date Yourself First

Find your ideal partner by finding yourself first. By understanding who you are, what you want and who you want it with.

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Dating apps help you choose who you’re attracted to. Contemplate helps you choose who you’ll be peaceful with. Chemistry can start a relationship. But only peace can keep it going. Attraction is common. Peace is rare.

After the program, you will:

  • Understand yourself much better
  • Define your ideal partner profile and find that right person
  • Maintain a healthy, long term relationship with your partner

The Contemplate Dating Program starts from the inside and then moves to the outside. You find yourself first, and then find that ideal partner.

This Program is for you if you are

Fed up of meaningless dating

Looking for a long-term purposeful relationship

Not clear how to find the right person

You've ended up with the wrong person in the past

You will share about 1.5 billion moments with your partner.
Go about it the right way.

The Approach

The Contemplate Dating Approach

The Contemplate approach is that a meaningful relationship does not start with finding the right person. It starts with finding yourself first.

Contemplate Dating follows an inside to outside approach in 3 simple steps.

1
Step 01

Find Yourself

2
Step 02

Find a Friend

3
Step 03

Find a Partner

In that order.
And you will find your ideal partner in the process.

Program Structure

How will the Program work?

The Contemplate Dating Program takes you through an 8 week "Find Yourself" journey today, so you don't have to worry for the next 80 years.

You will then go through a "Find a Friend" journey and then a "Find a Partner" journey on your own and find your ideal partner in the process.

Your 8 week "Find Yourself" journey with Contemplate will be split into 3 steps.

Weeks 1 and 2

Build Self Awareness

Start finding yourself using the Contemplate framework

Weeks 3 to 5

Define Yourself

Define your priorities and values

Weeks 6 to 8

Define Your Partner

Define the priorities and values of your partner

After Week 8

  • You start looking for that right person.
  • You look beyond the superficial and find a deeper connection.
  • You determine whether the other person is aligned with your values or not. At this stage, you are only looking for a friend, not a partner.
  • You find that right person. You find your friend. Maybe more than one person.
  • You determine whether the other person is also a good fit for you as a partner.

Find your ideal partner and keep them close

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Contemplate Dating Journey?

Begin your 8-week journey to finding yourself and your ideal partner.

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